Delroy, you are like a poet in the age of the prosaic. Black women in general ( and there are few glittering exceptions - thank you Nature) are among the most unromantic,brutish, grasping/materialistic ignorant-opinonatedhumans you could find. Dead on conversation that strays outside the polemical or the common sensical, they live their lives as if the Nail Shop,Bashment,and conspicious material success are the very pillars of civilization. What a horrible experience you must have had, the mere mental image of that meet make me shudder.

It must be the education system i.e the one at home. Peep into many a black home across this country and what you will see is the brutalising and the denigration of feminine grace. Its in the language they learn ,their manners or lack of it passed on down the generations,the general disrect for the fathers and brothers (often well deserved); the veneration of the light skinned cousins, the hatred of weakness and human error;the unspoken but powerful all influencing shadism...ninety percent of black homes are pathological..compounded by racism and low intelligence. Thats the conditions from which our women folk emerge.. and in truth they are limited and mostly unloveable.