Thanks for your replies Lady Day and Laila

Lady Day are you in competition with your man as to who can sport the best hairstyle ..lol
I hear what your saying though about experimenting with different hairstyles... Do you think your hairstyle reflects your personality? Do you feel good when you get your hair done? I mean when a lot of women are feeling down a trip to the hair dressers can be seen as a treat to make them feel better....I remember last year...I decided to cut off my long locks...now I thought long and hard about it...but decided it would be a nice change...I thought that if i cut my hair I wouldnt get the same amount of attention from guys (I was insecure at that point...not that I needed to get attention from guys to tell me I look good though!!)but I have to admit it was an issue!! But nowI love my short hair....its much easier to manage much healthier and fuller!!

Laila where is the article you are refering to? itssound really interesting...I would love to have natural hair though...sometimes you just wanna wash and go...I suppose I could cut if off again ....it will grow back...thats what hair does!!