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28-01-04, 06:14 AM
im in Year 12 at the moment and in the past few months about 5 or more gurls from my skool year are or thought they were pregnant. (4 were pregnant, 1 didnt hav it)
looking at these gurls i thought about how they'd raise their kids, and wot they would teach them about life. most of them aint necessarily immature but the way they approach life, and the way they carry themselves, didnt make them look ready to have children. also 1 gurl had a child about 1 year ago, and her kid's already kicking, scratching and biting, and backchatting. is this really the way a kid should behave at 1?? wot will she be like by the age of 5?? :?
if you were to look at ur freinds and the way they carry on, how do u think their kids would behave? considering our mentality at this age, and the things we place importance on, how do you think our kids will turn out, and what sort of ridiculous problems will they go through as they grow up. are we rasing kids who dont know how to socialise without be agressive, and think that looking good is the answer to evryting? confused3fair enough standing up for yourself, and taking pride in your appearance are important but arent there other tings as well?
the education system already complain about and write off Black children, soby raising our kids in an agressive self-minded way are we creating an even bigger divide between us and society, or are we giving them the skills to deal with life as a black individual?
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