@ MRG

The first thing you can learn about men is never TRY to please. Be yourself because different men like different things and you wil find yourself trying to be too many different things to please others.

You have to be yourself and who dont like it, don't like it!!! See how it goes or talk to him about it, but do not feel like you need to have sex to get the attention you want from him.

@ The other posters

C'mon you lot!!! Weren't none of you ever 16?? It doesnt mean because she likes a guy she is not interested in her future. She is 16 years old and it is natural to LIKE a guy or have a boyfriend at that age. They are not having sex or anything, and i can understand that having a boyfriend MIGHT get in some peoples way but it doesn't HAVE to. There are big women that still feel the way Mixed Race Girl does now.

But saying that your schoolwork is important so i do hope you are paying attention to it as well.

Peace~