when i wrote this message,i was thinkin 2 put it in the under 18s forum, but then i thought-no maybe the under 25s would be better because i will get better, more mature responses as opposed to "give him head-that'll satisfy him" or to "buy him a new pair of air forces-thats what men want". But since writin in the under 25s forum-all my replies have been patronising-telling me to focus on my school work!?!?!?!

I mean come on, were you not 16 once, jus because ur young doesnt mean you dont have feelings and relationships. A relationship, whether serious or not doesnt neccessarily interupt my schoolwork-im quite a balanced girl and i can concentrate on more than two things at once!!My schoolwork is fine actually (thankyou for being so concerned) and ive been predicted all above B's-but that isnt the subject of this message!

I never said i was planning to marry the boy-i know that is extremley unrealisitic...i jus want to know how to keep him! i am myself-and im not planning to change myself for anyone, i jus wanted a few opinions on what other people think what men want, and how to keep your man-or at least stop him from straying!

And for your information the reason i have my screen name as mixedracegirl is primarily because i am mixedrace and im proud of what i am, ive seen plenty of people with screen names such as 'jamaican girl', 'yardi man', 'latino girl'--->noone comments about that though!i jus thought it made more sense to write mixedracegirl rather than: 1/2 dominican republic, 1/8 french, 1/8 russian, 1/8 spanish, 1/8 welsh girl!!. Im the only mixedrace girl in my group of friends and so its just a nickname that some of my friends refer to me as.