If the father is really involved in the child's life, meaning he goes beyond his 'duty', but does what every caring parent does and give more than is necessay for the welbeing of the child, then the woman should ask only from what he currently earns.

But if he is one of those ignorant absent'fathers'who will not and does not do a thing forhis child, then sheshould 'bleed themanDRY AND still try to get somemore!!!'