@Backatya and soulsista

Soulsistayou areright, without wanting this to turn into a male/female bashing thread I understand completely whatyou are saying.

Once upon a time you would very rarely see a black man with awhite woman in my neck of the woods, now itis commonplace. I know so manybeautiful,hardworking, educated, conscious black female who are single. Why? it would seem that these women are being overlooked for the white females.

I would really love to know the true reason why black men are now chosing white females. Would someone please giveus black womenan honest response. No dissing, just a completely honest response.

I am fortunate, because I am in an established relationship, but I have a two year old daughter, and If things continue to remain the way they are (or in fact get worse) willshe de destined to the life of a single woman just because of her colour? Will she be overlooked by her own black men and forced to date outside of her race in order to find a partner?It is something that I need to consider, I'm teaching my baby to love and respect herself and her race,I will be deeply saddendedif she goes on to chose a white partner just because her own race do not want her!