@Soft2The Touch

Your friend has to look at herself very carefully. It could be that she has a deep seated fear of committment. Even though people may say they want one thing, if they keep finding another then they need to stop and ponder why.

Some women are happy with married men because they cant get involved too deeply. All they desire is some fun, attention and regular sex. They prefer the role of Mistress cos they feel they get the fun side of the relationship and avoid the mundane routine stuff like cooking and washing his skiddy pants!!!

But if your friend wants a single man...there are many out there so why cant she see them? If she were my friend I would suggest she spend some quality time on improving the relationship she has with herself first. Maybe some counselling that will help her to look at deeper issues that may be obstructing her finding the right relationship.