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20-03-04, 04:04 PM
@Soft2 theTouch, sound like your friend is suffering from low self-esteem. Because there must be some single or divorced guys out herefor your friend to meet yet she is only getting with married men. I am not sure if she is even aware of this consciously but sound like she is doing this to get some kind of psychological payoff.
Example: She doesn't feel good about herself so she doesn't pursue the unattached men because she does not feel she deserves or is entitled to a husband ora man of her own so she sets herself uponly to receive the crumbs of love that married men can throw. Now this is where the payoff comes in eventhough she is settling for men who are just using her and can't commit to her in any way,her wounded ego is lifed by the fact that she is able to come between a marriage and take the man from his wife even if it is only temporarily.
What your friend need right nowisn't a single guy and definitely not another married man but couseling to build her self-esteem and spending time alone getting know herselfand work on her own personal problems.
I have seen it just too many times, where some women instead of working on what is wrong with their lives or what they want for themselves, simply chose to ignore it and fill the voids with different men.
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