@Daronne 5

I wouldn;t even bother trying to give her any advice. People will always do what they want to do until their behaviour actually sickens them. This applies to Any form of destructive behaviour. When people want help they will seek it out themselves. If you try to rescue someone who dont want to be helped all that happens is that your energy gets completely sapped.

There are many women out there who Only go with married men. They actually seek them out. They feel safe knowing that man is spoken for already and their involvement with them has a safety net. If a woman has been hurt and damaged by previous let downs from men, she may well fall into the married man trap.

A lot of married men get hit on by women far more often than their single brothers do. Also there are a lot of predatory women who only want what belongs to someone else. They get off on the intrigue and naughtiness of an illicit relationship.

Some women just dont care about other women full stop. They may even be friends with the man;s wife, and often are. They dont even care if the wife is pregnantor has very young children to bring up.

Also a lot of married men will have illicit relationships with other married women...so both parties are happy. Seems to me that its the married people who are having a much wilder time than the single ones. After all its usually only young single women who are welcomed into the swingers scene!