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Daronne5 · (#12 (**permalink**))

The thing is the child is like i said coming of age where she has started to realise that daddy has 2 women-and he never stays the night-and the mother does stick up for the boyfriend and say oh well at least she got a dad-and i just roll my eyes i really do i think its pathetic how some people will stay in a situation for almost a quarter of a century just because they are scared of being alone-and the worst part is the woman isin't ugly at all but her man that she craving after so bad and no bloody oil painting

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@Daronne 5

That is sad and I feel very sorry for that poor little child.

But the Mother will probably make excuses for that too. Like "well at least he/she has a Daddy".

Its amazing that no matter how dysfunctional a situation people are in, they often just dont see it. Its normal to her and so she just bumbles on in her own strange little set-up and doesn;t spare a thought for how it might feel for her child.

But one day that little child grows up and starts asking questions.....

But sadly then the cycle usually continues again cos children learn from what they see, and not what we say to them. Children will mimic their parents behaviour even if they consciously think they Hate what their parents are all about. In twenty years time they usually are a replica of those same parents!