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Posts: 268
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: LONDON, , United Kingdom
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22-03-04, 12:38 PM
Happiness wrote:
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yes - it absolutely would bother me.....it speaks to a person's character.
A promiscuous person has not learnt/practised the skills of monogamy. Therefore, in most instances, a promiscuous person before marriage, will be a promiscuous person after marriage. Even if u dont marry him, I have no doubt in my mind that a promiscuous person is more like to cheat on you.
Having, said that, I would not necessarily leave the relationship....but it would be at the back of my mind......
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I agree with Iyallah and would also like to add that men can change if they want to. It's not that they can't change. The common misconception is that women can change a man (thats why they waste their time trying to). A MAN HAS TO WANT TO CHANGE FOR HIS OWN REASONS. Those reasons may include you, they may not.
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You speak of promiscuous past, but I would rather a man who had been promiscuous in his past (past being the key word) and therefore has been there done that and sees no allure or curiosity (like my man), rather than getting with a man who has never had 'his fill of girls' so to speak and hasn't got all that out of his system, as I believe this type of man would give more trouble in the long run in regards to wanting to explore the unknown, curiosity,experience life as such....etc. Right or wrong thats my view
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