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Post imported post - 22-03-04, 09:54 PM

@All

Sorry I have to Butt in here and agree with Cutie.

Sometimes a person does know themselves very very well. They can honestly hand on heart tell you that they would respond in a certain way, and they would.

True there are not many people who have the courage of their convictions but they do exist I promise you.

I can say this because I have been in this position myself...lied to..betrayed...living in a wonderful bubble of love and romance until.....

And yes I did walk....and its one of the hardest things I ever did, but I did it permanently.

Sometimes love just isn;t enough and you have to be strong and do the right thing by yourself. I see no point whatsoever in staying with a person who;se word cannot be trusted. You have to be able to look further into the future and know that life will throw lots of trials and tribulations at us. If your man is that weak then what good can he possibly be to you when life deals us a tough hand.

As in all situations in life we cannot place all people in the same category and state that no-one could be that strong to walk away when there are such strong feelings involved. These are the scenarios in life that make us grow up...that strengthen our resolve and our spirit.

A man who believes that this woman loves him So much that of course she;ll stay despite his lies....may just be under-estimating her badly.
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