@Kunjufu

Truth time Kunjufu and hand on heart....Immediately.

I took myself, my best friend and my unborn child on an aeroplane and sobbed for 2 weeks in the Tenerife sunshine.

I Never went back to him...contacted him or communicated ever again.

Obviously I feel very passionate about this argument, probably always will. But in the light of what you were saying to Cutie I just could not hold my tongue.

It doesn;t mean I didn;t love deeply. It just means I honour myself more.

Its a tough job...but someone;s gotta do it!