@Kunjufu

Yes and you are right about that...we can all go from strong to weak on this merrygoround of life.

But hopefully if you have strong guidance from your elders and enough self esteem you can ride the waves and end up on firm ground.

I know women who haven;t and have been to Hell and back because they lost their identity and power due to a bad relationship. Some never recover.

And that applies to men as well cos their hearts get as easily broken as a womans.