well it would bother me, i mean it's bothering me at the moment. the boy i'm with i lost my virginity with so i've only been with him and by askin him how many girls he's slept with i thought i would feel better about howmuch i meant to him and i felt worse. not only has he slept with a lot of girls most of x girlfriends i went to school with and live in my area and more importantly we do not get on . every time we go out it's become a game like he'll say hi to sum girl and i'll be like did u sleep with her? and he'll say or not say.this has been a learnin experience,iconfused3 think now thatmaybe it wasn't the right time to lose my virginity with him becos i'm not secure about our relationship. i believe if your secure it won't matter as much. the last thing i would like to say is by askin how many people your partner has slept with isa possible sign of whereyou stand, how much they value and respect themselves and you. you also have to ask yourself why your askin that question and what you expect to get out from it.XpeaceX