@Iyallah

You know you are right very often I see mothers and fathers talking to their children like they are all the same age and there is no line of authority there. Only today I heard a child ask her daddy a question to something she was pointing at and when the day didn't answer this girl caused a scence....I felt to slap her then remember she was no my child lol.

I also hear alot of parents say they won't discipline there children the way their parents disciplined them because they didn't like it......and I have to say these are the children that are the worst behaved confused3....I wonder why that is. I say it over and over again parents need to take more responsiblity and play a more active part in their childs upbringing...its not just about clothing them and feeding them that many seem to think.

I was with a friend thelast monthand we stopped by her friend who has a boy child this boy was so out of order the mother couldn't even control him......he took my friends bag as soon as she entered the house and threatened to throw it over the balcony. I stood there in shock and silence until he threatened to take my bag as well and do the same thats when I told him do it only if he is prepared to go over the balcony with it. The mother just stood there I told my friend I am leaving and if she wants me to still drop her home I suggest she come out of this mad house immediately....and then I left....not before telling the mother that the son will one day take of her knickers and beat her with it. I just heard today that the boy took a knife to his own mother and he is only 9 years old. That is a disaster waiting to happen.

All I could say on hearing the news is where is the father and other members of the family to help discipline this child and how did it get to that stage confused3, as this child has no one ounce of respect for anyone.