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03-06-04, 06:00 PM
Generally I believe that there is no chat up lines.
Never approach a woman unless she has maded it clear she is interested in you.
that means, she has looked in your direction (More than once) She has smiled at you ( the best indicator) she has made an excuse for you to speak to her.
othewise you are setting yourself up for a fool.
GENERALLY in life women make the first move, through their body language. And men make the first movethroughspeaking to them. For the woman, she can claim that you have miss understood her signals, for the man there is no Defence.
The reason woman get all het up about "Chat Up Lines" is because they have not made the first move in their body language to provide you with "permission" to drop the line in the first place. So your chat came out of the Blue.
Once they have made it "known" (in commas as Woman are so subtle for a man it's hard to discern exactly what is happening, i.e dropping their keys near you, speaking out loud about a surpposed problem, smiling at you or asking a ridulous question ("Are you allowed to park here?" when the sign clearly states it's safe to park) Then as a Man chat up lines are no problem.Having a chat up line is not being fake, it's simply trying to instigate a conversation with a complete stranger, when you have no other reason other than fancying them.
But generally,if the woman fancies you in the first place, you could sneeze as a chat up line as she would say: "Oh Bless you" In other words you can say what you like, as the woman would be interested in you. It's when she do'esnt like or fancy you do chat up lines become redundant or useless.
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