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10-07-04, 06:50 AM
babylluv wrote:
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i understand what u're sayin darlin, im only 17, but been through enough unfortunately in the past..sum ppl learn the hard way and others learn off other ppls experiences.... wat im tryin to say is,at 16, try as much as possible to focus on urself and do wat U think is right and focus on wat u want to achieve in future, meaningprioritiseur aims, dont spend too much thinking time trying to please this boy..bcos odds are that u care for him morethan u should or more than he does, and ureworth more;this is the effect boys hav on girls. The trick is telling ureself u dontneed a boy in ur life to feel complete, u understand??...u could have as much fun wid friends..but like isaid i dont kno ur situation but dont feel u need to please anyone yeah?! bcosu dontwant a situation wer d boy starts to use ufor wateva or starrts takin advantage!Having a boyfriend to me is fine BUTboys at dis age would definetely be interested in sex so its up to u to make dat decision, and if u do do it, make sure ure doin it for URSELF! not bcos u want to keep him, if unneed to impress him to make him stay, den u need to find someone dat will truly appreciate u, not jus for ur looks, and dat mite b later on in life, dats y im sayin, do evrythin now for urself, dont waste it on no one. (oh yeah, wateva happns, be safe)
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Just remember one thing Babe....as an older Guy.....many Boys/Men take advantage of the fact that a large proportion of Girls think the're "special" and better than the pack......the overwhelming majority in my experience !.....so the Girl assumes "Hey! the Boy has no reason to cheat on me as he won't get much better than me!" so they assume he's not a Player where in their teens and early 20's (at least!) most boys/men are!......by the way I'm not implying that you're not but be aware!
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