Hurricane wrote:
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@Soofresh wrote
why?
I am just not attracted to them physically, I have seen one or two that I can marry
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is it so you have Brown skinned babies?
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Nope, no even looking into that, I care about myself, my children will take care of themselves. I want someone that I am comfortable with, someone that looks like me, so that when I see her, i see myself.
No, that has never affected my decision
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I like nigerian men , but I will not marry one
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Yes there is nothing wrong with that, I like other African women, I am very close to some, but I can only marry a Nigerian. Why, because I think she can understand me more than any other women of any other country. That is the way i feel, Although I have met some that more than convinced me that they are up to the task, but I am slightly skeptical. I am only being honest and open here
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I am sure you will understand why I said the above.
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Yes I do
If you say so, I agree with you
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If you are looking at outside appearence or environmental situations to determine whom you will marry than you are limiting yourself greatly. My boyfriend is Nigerian and his people gave me a very hard time about being an Africa-American woman. They saw that I was am a child of God and have a very big heart. This is what you look at because I promise...just like Lauryn Hill said..."what you want might make you cry, what you need might pass you by..if you don't catch it.... what you need, ironically, will turn to what you want it to be...if you just let it.." You have successfully decieved yourself. It's okay though..to each his own I guess.