I would have to agree...the only reason I agree is because there are so many things that are tempting while away on military missions that so many cannot say NO! I have seen the married people go one deployments and while out for 6 months, they take that wedding ring off and are "single" for that time period.....about 6 weeks before we pull back in, the ring goes on to get the "ring print" on that finger as if nothing has happened. I think that being in a military relationship, you take the attitude of "what goes on while deployed STAYS on that deployment"...don't bring the issues and the drama back home!