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i personally dont think it is... superficial to want certain things.. i mean... i want to win the lottery... dont means im gonna win it...

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what my contention is ...is... if you "DEMAND"certain things.. then u in turn should have those things...
u want a pretty boy... are you pretty...
you want a buff man... is your body tight..
UR man man must have a phd... Do you have one...
you want a man with a porsche.. do u have one
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if you dont...
then i wouldnt necessarily call that person superficial...
just deluded...
what if the man of your dreams with all those things you want...
turns around and asks u for the same things u demand...
hmmm?
he is tall he wants tall kids... so he wont marry a woman under 6ft...
or u demand a pretty body and he turns arounds and demand you have a body like tyra banks..
hmmm...
and so the cookie crumbles
in short... i say...
make sure what u demand.. u can also give when its asked of u