@Abissinia
thanks for the compliment about my avatar. once again, I am not faulting women to have certain standards for a mate, i say once again, that is not it. All i am saying with the few of the aformentioned examples above are some shallow statements posted by women in different posts here and in other forums. Once again, there is nothing wrong with choosing some good standard qualities. many of you all are reading this wrong. Of course there is nothing wrong when a women or man for that matter seeks someone with a stable job, good looks,transportation, etc... those are not shallow. Why would she date(although some women do) a guy who doesn't have his own vehicle? Shallow are examples of being tooooo picky(hence breaking things down like a microscope on characteristics that are just simply ridiculous with some of the examples women stated above. Nowhere in my examples can anyone state where I faulted a women for choosing a good looking guy, a guy who has transportation, etc... All of you are arguing statement that I did not post. How can you debate with me about statements or characteristics not mentioned in mypost? Again PEOPLE don't get it twisted.confused3