here is a little explanation

basically the church of corinth was corrupted by the people hanging on to theor old ways and not fully submitting to God. the women when they came to church were gossiping and their were rifts between jews ans gentile women. while the service was going on all sorts of madness was taking place and the women seemed to be the cause through their gossiping. also at this church people were more concerned with speaking tongues than developing true relation with God

paul as a result tried to give them an order that they could follow to resove the issues facing the corinth church. hence one problem was that women would not be quiet in church whilst service was going on so Paul instructed them to ensure that the women be silent in this church to resolve one issue. however Paul did point out that it is not a command of God but an order by him to give order in that church.

Paul is not saying that women can never speak in church just dont cause a disruption to service. simple.

also the man is the head of the woman in the household in those days no one would be living single.

so we need to read the entire book of corinthians to see what leads us to the scritpture.

anyway this is what i am told by my friend who is a man of God very blessed soul.

if i get anything else i will post

God bless