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11-08-05, 04:06 PM
@soulmachine
I think what you experience was bad customer service i hope you complained to the manager.
@all
For me its very hard to trust men that are strangers, I am never rude but sometimes when they approach girls in a certain way they are asking for trouble. They have to think would they want their mother or sister to be put through that grief. Sometimes I say hello back, but not all the time because I know from experience as a women that it will cause more grief. I think this happens more in England, there are a lot of men who will not take a polite assertive no for an answer and will continue to harass you. They wont stop till u start causing a scene and I personally dont like drawing attention to myself. When I went out to clubs in other countries such as US or in dom rep all I had to say was a polite no and that was it they smiled back and left u to be. But in UK, its like they want a whole essay or something before they backoff, I went to the choice fm birthday party and this guy hit me over the head because I said no I have a BF. He said"what the **** is wrong wid u can u not see Im a pretty boy reh reh reh" he had attitude.
Even the man I am wid now for the last 7 yrs we had to be introduced by friends before we started dating. I was attracted to him but would never be interested in approaching him on the street.
When a man get ignored please dont take it personally its just the type of environment we live in, that of distrust.
I hope I make sense. Some girls will say hello some wont it doesnt make them any better or worse from each other as people.
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