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Post imported post - 12-01-06, 09:31 PM

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This is true...and some men have even gone on to process their hair as grown men and such thinking they are better than with their natural hair. However, I think that Black men have turned away from these things more than women. I mean, look at all the Black celebrities that people find attractive. I can't even think of one that is trying to look White besides Michael Jackson (but that is a different story altogether). However, when we look at the Black women that are celebrities, we can't tell what they really look like because they are absorbed with the Western standard of beauty. Then we wonder why people like Morris Chestnut and othershave found it easy for themto be with a White woman.
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First of all Morris Chestnut is not with a white woman.
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As of the other bit... I suppose you haven’t seen African men who have bleached themselves with banned very dangerous products to lighten their skin, permed and bleached blond their hair, and have tried many many other dangerous, deadly products in an attempt to resemble a European. Well let me introduce you to some.


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This is Koffi Olomide - Famous Congolese singer
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And you don't even want to see what the rest of his band members look like.

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-Women of all ethnic groups and persuasions are always the most faithful to their own.
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Not always bro, never always... This i believe is what happend... many sell out mofo's went sniffing about all over the place trying tosatisfy their curiosity same time expecting the black woman to remain loyal to them should they ever decide to come back. You knowhow funny that is now i hear so manyblack men crying shame.

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I tell you what happened New Years Eve.
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All night this particular group of black men were basically chasing after anything so long as it was a woman... they were especially more aggressive to white women, one of them even wouldn't let go this minger bleached blond Pat Butcher look a like then in comes these two beautiful sisters and immediately the vultures started making comments, being arrogant and trying to grab on the girls like if they should be grateful this morons want them... one of them even tried to summon one of the girls with his finger lol but you should have seen their face hit the floor when their M&M looking boyfriends came and started hugging them and kissing lol i have never seen black men so disgusted... i think quite a lot of the women secretly enjoyed watching them hit the dirt.
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My point is this morons were making a prat of themselves by going after any white woman but when the sisters do it... it suddenly becomes horrific and nasty.
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-Black men, in general, have not adopted a White standardas theattractive man, therefore have not falsely conceded aesthetic inferiority as too many of our beautiful Black women already have.
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See pics above.
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Perhaps, butIMO Black men only made that comparison after Black women themselves endorsed it. Trust me, nearly everything young men do revolves around how we think women will respond. If even a quarter of allwomenwent natural, I guarantee you would see a revolutionary change in the Black man's perspective.
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What are you talking about? that's just one of the sorry stories...
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Apparently here in Britain over 35% of black women wear their hair natural but truth be told there are uncomfortable large number of black males who will knock over and trample 10 natural African women if it means they can get next to a European or mixed women.

No argument there Abz...but I have to ask...do you not think that this percieved aesthetic inferiority to Whites, whether you feel it was started by men or women,is the root cause of the psychological damage that makes women perm hair, use weave, bleach skin, as well as men processing their hair and/orpursuing lighter-skinned or White women?
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Actually if you speak to a lot of sisters who do perm their hair , you'll find that mostperm their hairbecause everyone else does it... frankly most of them would have never even thought about inferiority. It's a shame butit's the truth, we did it because our parents did it, andwhen we grew up they did it for us and we continued withoutgiving attention to the why.
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Blacknet has often talked about the psychological damage to women, so I thought it was pertinent to discuss how it factors in with men as wellbecause we need to truly love ourselves before we start asking for love from others.
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I have no problem with that, but i think you only looking at the women side of things
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Anyway i've lost my point somewhere... and to be honest can't be bothered to review post.
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btw @blackbeauty good post clp)

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