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16-04-06, 03:48 PM
Reuben's thread along a similar theme reminded me about an office debate that was raging on Thursday...
How do you know when you're in love, some people felt you felt instictively whilst in the relationship and that this could be lifelong... I disagreed, i felt you don't really know that you were 'in love' until after the relationship is finished..
My feeling is it is only when looking back and reflecting on the relationship, that you fully realise that you were in love... I think its hard to tell when you're in 'love' and not 'in lust'..
So when do you know when you're in love?
what are the signs/feeling/behaviours?
is it possible to be 'in love' with more than one person?
Can you love someone and only one person for the rest of you're life?
NO right or wrong answers just want to hear thoughts and perspectives....
African heart, African mind
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