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20-04-06, 08:24 PM
Thoth B3 wrote:
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Good point on the infatuation thing, Thoth and Eskay. The infatuation thing is almost like a fog. You come out of it after REALLY getting to know the person, not your idea of them, and not" their representative", as Chris Rock says, and you may be like "what the hell was I thinking, how did I ever find this person attractive?",lol. I think that the love part is more enduring. Even after you see the real person, and the worst of the person, you STILL can't shake the feeling. I'd say that's true love, or something close to it.
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I can follow that, but another question arises in my mind. How then do you know it is true love and not just that you have "gotten used to" or "become accustomed to" the person in your life where you feel you need them really only because your interaction with them has become habitual?
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I can't speak for others, but I have never been/could never be with someone just because I'm accustomed to them, or because of habit. I have no problem being alone,there is a big part of me that actually prefers it. When I find myself wanting to share my space/time with someone in spite of my natural inclination towards solitude, IT'S GOT TO BE LOVE!!!!LOL.
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Your question is a valid one though, for most people.
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