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Join Date: May 2004
Location: Hathersage, Derbyshire
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04-05-06, 02:53 PM
liberiangirl wrote:
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So do you guys believe in that forgivness should be for everything, or do you think that some things are not to be forgiven?
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I have no intention of forgiving anybody. Everybody deserves what they get.
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Forgiveness is not the catalyst for change in a person.
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Forgiveness doesn't even offer the understanding to a person on how to change for the better.
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Forgiveness is not anall powerful toolthat would make a person change in the first place.
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Forgiveness is just a sympathic reaction.
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Understanding far outweights any forgivenessanyone might offer.
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If all the people had understanding then forgiveness wouldn't even exist.
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However if someone has undesirable characteristics and knows itthus demonstrates that they are making an effort to enact a change within themselves and their lifesthen I wouldn't shun them, in fact I'd probably offer some assistance. Ifcontray to thatI would have little to do with them since I don't want undesirables in my atmosphere, since they would prove distruptive to my life.
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Forgiving people is simply another way of saying that I want more of this in my life. Kind of like the battered wife constantly forgiving the abuser, hoping for a change that seldom manifests.
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