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Kunjufu · (#11 (**permalink**))

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EF MAX wrote:

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If you are really keen to move on, then you need to consider the differences between a climax and an ejaculation. The two are not the same although they appear to happen at the same time.

One is purely neurological and the other physiological. An ejaculation is the physiological side of things, this is way the body literally ejects something from its being [ we all know what this is]. The climax is a pure neurological event that gets linked to the ejaculation and the two do not have to happen together.

Once a guy understands the difference between the two, then he needs to listen to his body as it approaches both and learn which to control and how.

For 99% of men, the ejaculation and the climax appear to come together, but they don’t. The ejaculation and the physiological side happens first and then [usually in milliseconds] the climax follows.

If a guycan learn when he is approaching a climax and learn to ease off the stimulation that usually is needed to take him to the last step, then it is possible to have an ejaculation but delay the climax. This takes time and lots of solo sex to fully understand your body.

Once mastered and this may take months rather than a few sessions, then it is possible to have several small [almost dribble like] ejaculations and then when ready or if no more will power or stamina, have your final climax.

Do be aware though, this can lead to intercourse sessions lasting for several hours [if you are fit enough] and although each of those ejaculations provide lubrication for the woman [assuming all other methods of birth control and safe sex are catered for and covered – ie long term relationship], the average woman will still get a little sore from this amount of friction.

Be also aware that on many occasions, you may have so many small ejaculations that you just have not got the physical strength to reach your own climax.. its all about practice and good knowledge. There is also many occasions whereby your body gets use to this behaviour and thus cause erection problems whereby the blood flow to the penis is not as strong as normal..

Other things to consider is that men have cycles,, where the body produces much more testosterone at certain stages of the month and also the day [mornings being a typical favorite],, get to know your cycle because when its low there is not much you can do about it.

As been said,, more regular sex keeps you in shape, in touch, and low on sperm all of which will aid towards delaying a climax.. Solo sex can help here as well.

Circumcision as an adult [I know cos I had mine done at 43] is painful.. no it is seriously painful in recovery.. it does seriously reduce the sensitivity, but it can and often does improve the blood flow and as such this increases the length marginally [about 10-15mm in length and about the same in girth].. that lack of sensation is a pain but the areas of sensitivity move along the penis to a slightly lower area. This in itself gives a new pleasure and an added dimension.

My last major partner was in a position to be able to talk about sex withme, who she had been sleeping with for over a year before the circumcision and about another year afterwards.. we have smiled about this to ourselves.

At the end of the day, confidence and trust in both yourself and your partner can make an amazing difference to many things in the bedroom..