Kunjufu/Shemsi - be it your parents (mother) or the mother of your children, is it common that it's always the women that need convincing of such moves. I know of one woman that only dated African men because she knew an African name for any offspring would be standard. At the same timeI know severalmen who have had to convert women to this way of thinking. Any sistas found it's their dads or boyfriend/husband who needed converting?