well kunjufus advice is what most men in my family are telling me to do. being ignore him to the point it hurts and ill try that. but like bacoo started the idea of taking on this guy after work by the car park comes to play in my mind. i mean im being called dumb behinde my back by this guy to the woman. by the way this same woman hired me. so it kills this guy.

but ill give it a shot ignore him. but i know ill loose it if it get too far. ill end up leavingand ill make sure i sleep with this woman to make him mad if he pushes it. we all know resolving this throught the proper channel wouldnt get me anywhere i mean its whitys we talking about here theyll always support their kind. i never had this problem when i worked in the u.s.