Backatya wrote:
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facetygal wrote:
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Mmm well I kinda messed with a married man. While me and my ex were on a break he went and got married, far as I was concerned it was a marriage of convenience (he wanted that from me but tru I wouldn't do it he found and married someone within 2mths of knowing her) Anyway he kept coming to see me but it never lasted long (the woman thinking she had a proper marriage with this man decided to call me, big mistake!). Bare passa passa ensued and yes it ended on a bad note.
I got another ex on my case he wasn't married when I was with himbut he isnow and has akid. He tells me he still likes me and is more than willing to cheat on his wife if I said the word, even came to see me on christmas day when his wife wasn't around. Me and this guy are friends butI've told him repeatedly no nookie nah gwan, me and him had our time. Just concerns me greatly the lack of respect for his wife and the vows he took, if I called him now said yeah I'm horny he would be here in a flash.
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@ Facetygal
Hi sis, some people might ask. Doyou think it is wise to associate with 'friends' like these?
Obviously this guy has one aim on his mind, and that is to get a supply of the 'sweetness' he remembers from back in the day(assuming of course your relationship before was an intimate one). This means he has no respect for his wife (that's obvious) but also for you in that he would be asking you to compromise your principles in that way.
It is one thing for a man to becool with the knowing hehas beencheating and dogging on his wife. But to ask a female 'friend' to be ready to live with the knowledge that she laid down andopened her legs (excuse my crudeness) to a man she knows has a wife and therefore become a party to his slackness is another. This shows a man that doesn't really deserve the title of 'friend'.
Just my opinion for what it's worth.
Respect
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I hear what ur sayin but in honesty most of my friends have wanted to get in my drawers at some stage, or I've had a thing for them at some stage. The key is once we bothknow the score we can get past that issue and still have a good friendship. I know he has more respect for me than he does for his wife, and if I needed something or someone to talk to he would be there.