I suggested that my friend post her own response to the negative stuff you said about her song, but she didn't want to

But personally, I just wanted to say that I think (and hopefully she agrees with me) that you clearly missed the point of it and focussed on a single line that represents apart of her reality.

If she feels she's a strong black woman, and that being so is a burden and a blessing, who are you to judge her?

But actually, the song (and I know she agrees with me on this) is about being okay with being single evenif being single is not what you ultimately want - by consciouslychoosing not to settle for less than you deserve.

Damn!! Why people always got to pick on something negative!! If you don't like her words, that's your prerogative, but there's no need to be so mean about it!!