Thought I was done, but I'm still vex...

I'm speaking only for myself now, not at allfor my friend, but I also want to add something.

At the risk of attracting a verbal beat-down, I can tell you this: I am a kind, generous, respectful woman who loves making people happy. Making people happy is my motivation. Knowing that I am this type of persondoes not mean I am an arrogant person, and nor does it mean I think I am a suitable partner for any old person.

I know that should the right man come along, and if I recognise him as such, I will devote myself (without necessarily abandoning my personal goals) to making the relationship work and makinghim happy. I have never been a selfish girlfriend, and I see no reason why I should start now.

But given that I know I am a loving, giving person, it's probably more important than ever that I ensure I find someone (unlike my exes) who will not take advantage of that. Is that wrong of me?