[quote=Madam Butterfly;1422122]

Part of being a member of a forum is that there is a certain amount of annonymitiy and you can choose what to reveal about yourself and when, as well as which aspect of your personality you want to portray.. also some folks like to maintain an air of "mystery" for want of a better word. A meet up is the death of all of that. People are even extremely wary of posting their pics on the forum and most that have, have removed them a short time later (me included).

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That is soo interesting... lawd loads of interesting comment on BNV tonite.... I was surprised at some people's reaction to BFG's suggestion of meeting up... but you are right some people like the persona they have built up for themselves on BVN, I mean I have images in my head of people on here look like based on what they say, their attitudes and their avatars.. for example I think Kunjufu looks like Malcom X LOL.

To meet up would mean that people would have too reveal the person behind the mask and that would kill the persona and the perception I suppose.

I know what 1 or 2 people on here look like coz I've seen their pics, but as for the vast majority I have my own images in my mind of they they look like and would not like to be disappointed lmaooo (kidding).