It's deffinately an oxy moron as MB says. I'm in no way an advocator of IR relationships and you'll never catch me planting my lips on a grey. BUT as I've seen it happen, I understand that people fall in love with who they fall in love with. The problem is that this is often the case for less than 1% of the IR relationships I've seen. I know people who have spent their lives condeming white folk and then bam all of a sudden they're shackin up and makin babies with one. Majority of these relationships i've come accross are often born out of self hate indeed but it's not always the case. sometimes love is just love. I think the real question is whether you have to alter your thinking once you embark on an IR relationship.