Just had to share this ...someones observation

Let me break this down a little.

Gay men 9/10 of the time gravitate toward stong, assertive women. Many of them are surrounded by these types of women in their families. Look at it.... Star and Al, Terry McMillan and Johnathan, Juanita and this guy.

Also, for that matter, very few strong willed men would be able to be with a woman like that because there would be a constant struggle for control. Relationships like that are destined to fail because a strong woman who is able to control her husband in these instances, begin to look at him with disgust because she is able to manipulate and mistreat him. She realizes she doesn't respect him. So she will A)mistreat him more, or B) leave him. If she does A) eventually his testosterone will kick in, his nutz will drop and he will finally put his foot down. Being raised around and influenced by women all of his life, he tends to be somewhat of a feminist as far as womens equal opp, rights, etc go and that old thing no man should ever hit a woman. That is because it has been drilled into his head as he was being emasculated by women. Once he gets enough and this woman is jumping on him, then he realizes it's not okay to just hit and abuse a woman, but if she attacks me it IS okay to get this bish offa me.... If you read the story, in between the lines, you should be able to gather that she jumped on him and he stood his ground and just for once used his muscle. I can just about imagine what happened.

He was going along with her. She was telling him how the reconcilliation would go, who to be with, talk to, etc. Then she brought up the thing about his male parishoner. He was defensive. Also in his time away from her he has gotten stronger and said no it's not gonna be that way. She was like how dare you try to stand up to me Girly man! lol .... She felt froggy and jumped like she has probably done many times before... and he choked her ass! She didn't press charges because she was turned on. For the first time she saw he was capable of being a man and not her dorrmat and so she has a little respect now.


either that theory OR ...

at 4:am she wanted some and he couldnt deliver and she got mad .. LOL