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Originally Posted by Melissa
You guys are carrying on like its only black guys who holla at girls in the street!
Wifeable i'd say you had a stink attitude, its not just your voice, its body language, push up face , eveything else that the guy was probably responding too. - Lighten up.
I used to cuss at men in the street who holla at me - now that ive grown up i take it as a compliment, smile, say thank you and keep it moving if im not interested in having a conversation, more often than not, the more you cuss, the more you encourage them.
A better question maybe why is it so hard for black women to accept compliments?????
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melissa
someone should be happy to accept COMPLIMENTS
but not abuse, when refusing to buy a CD, for example
maybe abuse is cool in your world
i am not talking about ppl being friendly, i'm talking about a women refusing an advance and getting insulted
in reponse to having an attitude, your opinion on mine, if it is directed at me in particular where u desribe my "push up face" and so on would only be valid if it was actually based on the fact that you knew me in person otherwise how exactly can you know how i conduct myself in that situation? Or did you mean an 'attitude' in general terms