Let me be real with you: There are men that I find as a black male, that are very handsome. Am I gay? Far from it. You just KNOW when someone is better looking than you...you don't have to be gay to sense that.

I could never be as good looking as Boris Kodjoe or Denzel Washington. I know this and I openly admit that they are stunning in their own right.

At the end of the day, I'm still a young black male fantasizing about those girls in my classes and their various...assets.

It just comes down to how comfortable you are as a man to say stuff like that.