Ok then, fine. If you feel like I'm leaving out the important part about *how* and *when*, well....prove your desire.

Then I'll tell you how. Otherwise, it would be a frustrating waste of my time. People are just not serious. You must be involved. You must want to be involved. You have to involve yourself. There is no free crown or halo, people. Believe that. If there was, you would already have it.

You earn it. One way.
Or the other.