I went through that garbage with one of my ex's. We were the same age when it suited him and then he would play the big man card when he felt to. I know it depends on the mindset of the man but after that experience I tend to stick to men between-2 +5 years of me.

I also have to say that I do believe the majority of the time- from what ive seen; if a man chooses to date someone thats over 10 years younger than them, it does say alot about their mindset.