There are a lot of us who are single, including myself, but maybe if we weren't looking for someone that resembled Denzel, Tyson Beckford, John Legend or Tyrese, we'd have someone keeping us warm each night.

I'm going to be very honest and frank here this is the death knell of the relationship between a average black woman and man born in the diaspora...the women expect too much too soon without the input...it espouses itself in ours more than any other culture i have observed..come to think of it if the chap is good looking and makes just a bit of money and has no car thats it no chance....
Personally speaking back then when man finished Uni and was struggling for that lucrative job or maybe change career paths completely sistas wouldn't check your azz of course i had no car and wasn't a big earner just a young dude getting by...now how this has affected some black men when they came into money is another thing...it really messes with the brothas mind as to we are of the same culture you should be my soul mate why can't you believe in my dream???
Sistas really got to cut this out and start supporting the brotha am talking about the grafters the hardworking ones who believes in preserving the black family and culture....if not black women who date black men exclusively would be left with the scraps whilst the others help themselves to a healthy steak....
Wasn't trying to steer the debate into a different direction but some reality had to be injected....now back to the thread