Dont think people realise that a parents or Grandparents love is colour blind. A child is a child and how you view the child is a direct link to how they view themselves. Nobody on this Earth can love that child in the same way as a biological parent that is of sound mind and body. I may be ignorant to practices of their Caribbean ancestry but I have a tongue and active mind in my head. Even the childs Father has little knowledge of his history( I question him incessantly) so I read posts on this site and gain a greater knowledge of what it is like from the Black prospective, not pretending I understand it all but will ask if need to clarify. Just like my Grandsons I also need education so I can teach.