I have an 8yr old Grandson ,half sibling to new Grandson , who is of Dual Heritage already living with me. The Mother of both has had problems with drugs etc and as reports destroyed by Social Services they are presuming her problems are down to my parenting skills but in my defence I have 4 children and only one has chosen this lifestyle I am being blamed for. They are bringing up the "better off in London" and other excuses to back up the fact that they want to have child adopted. As it is an ongoing case I cannot say too much but can assure you that the accusations etc flying about have no basis in truth and are being twisted to fit their version of truth. Cant wait to get whole story off my chest once all over but hands are tied for now but can assure you that my Grandsons welfare is paramount to me and I am not doing this out of a sense of guilt or obligation.