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Originally Posted by Kunjufu
There are plenty of good black women
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OUT THERE: Professional women do exist
I guess this question should be asked by black women, where are all the black men?
I honestly haven’t seen any successful black men with black women. I have worked in the City and Docklands and the women I see black men with are predominantly white or sometimes Asian.
My mates and I went for an after-work do, filled with potential black professionals, as we entered the room our eyes were satisfied but lo and behold not one black man approached me or my black mates. But one of my mates, who is white, blonde etc, had all the black men flocking to her. She pulled every black man in there.
We felt disgusted and sick to the stomach. I must say my mates and I are very attractive, educated and good mannered black girls. We talk to just about anyone especially in that kind of environment, where everyone's out to have a good time.
The few black men that are not with white girls, are either taken, or are downright idiots. I love black men but they need to fix up. How many black successful men have black women? In response to Phinn (Voice Feb 11-17). there are plenty of single, educated, mature, church going, beautiful, successful, ‘take me home to mama’ black girls out there. Where are you looking?
Samantha
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I haven't had fun with a complete f*cking idiot like this in ages, however.....
The few black men that are not with white girls, are either taken, or are downright idiots.
......this alone shows her mentality. Her whole entire attitude completely reeks like a toilet that hasn't been flushed for over a week.
How does this sanctimonious jackass define 'success' anyway? Earning a six figure salary in Canary Wharf or Liverpool Street? Being suited and booted? Owning a four bedroom house in Hampstead Heath? Driving a big car? Being able to buy expensive lunches during break?
I'm one of the "few" 'black' men who "are not with white girls" - I guess that makes me a "complete idiot". What about African men who run their own little businesses/self employed, run bakeries, barbers, record shops etc or who don't earn a great deal but still manage to support their families and save up? Are they not successful because they don't buy £400 suits in the City after work or can't afford to go on three luxury holidays a year?
Women have great intuition, but men can also sense an ugly hearted, superficial woman from a mile off and avoid her lie the plague.
As for her HORSESHIT story, sorry I'm not buying it. For all she knows, half the men in that place probably had African wives/girlfriends who couldn't be present. But you see, she's one of those idiots who would spot the ring on my finger then automatically ASSume I'm married to some caucasoid. She probably never had any "white mate" with her, she probably just threw that in to add weight to an already super weak argument.
Also I have clients in the same places she mentioned who are what I'd call "successful" and many of them have African wives and girlfriends.
She's already heaped judgement on single African men as "idiots" so really, what's her beef? Why doesn't she and her friends just do what they really want to do (and we already know what it is) and leave the rest of the community to get on with it?