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Originally Posted by alabamagirl
Welcome to the forum BrownBone110. Men are just men. That's how they act. You don't need to change yourself to please men. Many men do favor light skin. You are not ugly, so do not lighten your skin or do anything else to alter your facial features via plastic surgery. The guy who you say is attracted to you, but likes talking to other women probably thinks it's good to be in the presence of other women. Many men like the company of more than one woman. They are womanizers. The right one will come along for you one day.
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Yeah but he specifically ignores me. I am a nice person, not full of myself or anything, and I just don't understand why I am shut out. I'm not pressed for a relatinship with him but it makes things uncomfortable the way he goes out of his way to not notice me. It's not even that serious. I'm just trying to get to know ppl that's all.
I'm not having luck with men at all...another guy in a different class does this as well. I think the girl who sits next to him is his girlfriend, but sometimes she will strike up a conversation with me and he'll get real silent and look agitated. Or even if I don't say anything at all..he just acts funny. i'm not sure if he has something against darkskin girls or what cause some guys just don't like us--his friend is light.
i'm having issues relating to men IMO what can I possibly do to change this. I feel like I give off a aura that I am not approachable..but i don't know what to do about it. i am just very paranoid and don't want to live my life alone because of this