Good work moderators..@lilsoulful thought she had disappered for a while she did try though because her writing style seems to have changed...anyways in this life the youung evntually grow old and the new ones spring up to take their place...thats what its all about if you have good genes of sound mind and have a decent job whats the problem???...again the problem is of 'sound mind' i wouldn't encourage those who fall into that bracket to have children...but there is increasingly a good number of professional african women of a certain age range who would most likely make this sort of comment...theres only so much holidays shoes and bags you can have