Originally Posted by astmartins

I did initially agree that it wasn't a big deal but its obviously a BIG DEAL to some of our over-enlightened women always trying to flip the script so what of our mothers were they property too or did their husbands threaten them on the whole with taking their names back!!!..how ironic seen many a seperated woman still keeping the mans last name though
In Nigeria and @chi -@BlessingFromGod and some others can vouch to this if you so marry someone(of Nigerian Extract) who resides in the Diaspora or Nigeria the woman would drag you back to her choice of wedding destination which is usually you guess.... where her folks originate from or wherever takes her fancy...don't see the men complaining a friend getting married in the Pacifics is one of them...