Stickup kid, relationships are an interaction between people, if you are marrying someone, you should at least be able to lay concerns of all parties out openly and come to a suitable arrangement, even if its not a perfect one.


Owolowo-Uche and odonkor chinwe, would be far ahead since they both have already been introduced to the world of double barrelled names......lol

For me, its not simply about equality. I dont really want to go into it too much here.

Away from that though,my decision is even more cemented should I end up marrying someone with a non African surname, I will NEVER ever rid my African surname name for a European one. Not only that but I will not be standing by while my children answer European surnames.........no can do.

You can call me what you like.